From Witness Murder to Mentoring Men: Ray’s Story

When Ray Raya was just a child, he witnessed a relative commit murder.

Growing up in a neighborhood of gangs and criminals, Ray's childhood home was once shot until it looked "like swiss cheese." He overheard a teacher once say of him, "He's never going to amount to anything because he's a dirty Mexican."

This is where Ray's story began—but it's not where it ended. And you can help write new endings for men just like him.

Ray never experienced genuine love or affection. His father hugged him only once in his lifetime and never said "I love you." After college graduation, Ray became a policeman. One day, Ray's grandfather warned him: "You need to leave California. Your cousins will kill you if you stay."

For years, Ray remained emotionally imprisoned despite a successful military career, marriage, and even receiving Christ. He returned from overseas deployment and joined a group doing Majoring in Men curriculum. Ray said, "These were the first books I ever read cover to cover." Ray got the seed of the Word, but he still didn't change. The hard exterior remained.

After seven children, Ray's wife finally confronted him during counseling: "You're not my pastor," she told their counselor, "and he's not my husband.” Then she walked out.

That breaking point became Ray's breakthrough moment.

Ray says, "CMN books, especially 'Never Quit,' started pulling at me. Ed was telling me, 'Don't quit, God's going to deliver you from this."

This is why we do the ministry to men ... WHEN A MAN IS DISCIPLED IN CHRIST, IT 

CHANGES EVERYTHING. This is how we change the future of nation

Your monthly gift provides the complete curriculum that transformed Ray's life to another man in crisis. Faithful men make the difference.

Today, Ray doesn't just follow the curriculum—he teaches it, multiplying your impact by reaching even more men. "It's about helping another man, right? Not trying to be perfect, just trying to follow Christ," he explains. "When I got a vision of what a real man is, and what a real father is supposed to be—man!"

Every day we reach men like Ray. We are in a crisis of manhood - and the only answer is for men to be discipled.

Why do we invest in men who seem so far gone?

Because every man matters. Every transformation affects generations.

Ray returned to his "crime-infested family" and led his grandfather to Christ before he died. Every father saved means children growing up with love instead of violence. Every husband restored means a marriage healed and a family preserved.

Your decision to act NOW by joining CMN Guardians with a monthly gift directly rescues men from destructive paths. Without partners like you, men like Ray remain trapped in cycles of violence and emotional isolation.

Will you become a CMN Guardian today with your monthly gift?

Your generosity doesn't just fund programs—it creates ripple effects through families and communities. And God promises that those who give receive the blessing for every life changed.

To those who have already joined the Guardians: thank you. You're the reason stories like Ray's are possible. Your faithful support creates transformation that spans generations.

What you do right now—your next move—might not matter to everyone. But it matters to someone.

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